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Aug 2022
28m 37s

Strategies for Dealing with Difficult Co...

Harvard Business Review
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Work is challenging for lots of reasons, but most of us have probably come to realize that what makes or break a professional experience is people - and sometimes we encounter a boss, peer, or direct report that isn’t at all fun to work with. Amy Gallo is a contributing editor at HBR, and author of the book "Getting Along: How to Work with Anyone, Even Diffi ... Show More
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