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Nov 2019
46m 43s

Work Friendships Are Mostly Amazing and ...

Harvard Business Review
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Having a close friend at work feels great. You have someone to laugh with, confide in, and exchange glances with during a meeting. But we often fail to anticipate how the conflicting demands of work can occasionally strain that relationship. We talk through common tensions and how to handle them, either to maintain the friendship or to ease off of it. Guests ... Show More
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