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Jul 2022
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DBT Skills for Dating

Michelle Henderson and Kate Sherman
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Kate and Michelle talk about DBT skills that may be helpful for getting to know new romantic partners/going on first dates, determining whether to become exclusive with someone, and coping with rejection if a romantic relationship ends. 

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