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Jul 2022
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99. Not Who We Used to Be: Change in the...

Monica Berg and Michael Berg
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We each experience trauma in unique ways, but one thing is certain: it forever changes us. Processing trauma comes with grief, disappointment, and a fundamental shift in how we exist in the world. However, we ultimately get to choose how it changes us. In this mini episode of Spiritually Hungry, Monica and Michael discuss how to weather life quakes and become softer and more open because of them.



“We can either be hardened by things that happen to us, or we can know that we are changed and choose growth and transformation.” – Monica Berg



The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma

by Bessel van der Kolk M.D.

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