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Jul 2022
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Girl, it’s time to get out: Trauma Bondi...

LATRICE RAINER
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When you’re in a toxic relationship, leaving them isn’t as easy as just walking out the door. Many of us have experienced trauma bonding and because of that, makes it hard to break free. Let’s talk about it. https://linktr.ee/theselfloveplaybook Let’s Connect! ✨ Instagram: @iamlatricerainer 
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