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Jun 2022
29m 7s

Does guilt have a silver lining?

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Guilt and shame are often used interchangeably, but researchers in emotion and psychology say they are distinct – and often motivate people into very different paths of behaviour. For the feeling of guilt, at least, that might even push you into making unexpected positive changes. ... Show More
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