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Jun 2022
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The toxic relationship ended but I can't...

PAUL COLAIANNI
About this episode
A toxic relationship is one where at least one person is hurtful to another when there is supposed to be love, kindness, respect, and support. A woman wrote to me and said she was in a toxic relationship for far too long and is now trying to figure out how to forgive herself and move on. That's a great idea. I do my best to help her do that in this episode. ... Show More
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