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Apr 2022
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What To Do When You Don't KNOW What To D...

Kristin Nicole
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In this episode, Kristin discusses what to do when you don't know what to do and the first (and second) step to creating a positive change to combat the BPD and sensitivity spiral.

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DISCLAIMER: Kristin Nicole is a Women-Centered Confidence and Empowerment Coach helping Emotionally Sensitive, HSP (highly sensitive people) and BPD (borderline personality disorder) women break free from shame & isolation and unlock their full potential. She is not a therapist or mental health professional.

Kristin provides these beautiful and sensitive women, who tend to keep their feelings hidden, with a safe space to show up exactly as they are, build confidence, self-love, and self-acceptance without fear of judgement, shame, or guilt even if they aren’t able to express themselves to others. 

This podcast is an expression of her own experiences and views and should not be seen as offering professional or medical advice.

If you or someone you know is struggling and/or considering self-harm, please reach out to a mental health professional today;

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