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Jun 2022
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Episode 102: The Truth About Fake Orgasm...

DR. JUSTIN LEHMILLER
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In the classic film When Harry Met Sally, Meg Ryan famously said, “Most women at one time or another have faked it.” And she was right. But it turns out that women aren’t the only ones who do this. Fake orgasms are surprisingly common across genders. So why do so many people feign the peak of pleasure? And is pretending to climax a good thing or a bad ... Show More
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