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Nov 2021
15m 26s

The Truth About Baby Boredom

Caitlin Murray
About this episode

In today's episode, I discuss the things that surprised me after having my first baby, particularly how bored I felt at home. Though so much of the experience is joyful, the picture painted for new mothers does not always match how we feel in reality once the baby arrives. 

As a society we fail new moms and place unrealistic expectations they way they think they should feel from the moment they become a mom. Listen in to hear my tips and tricks for new moms on how to help combat baby boredom.

Don't forget that if you're a new mom or veteran mom going through all these feelings, you're not alone.

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