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Jun 2022
33m 6s

ASK P: a Fading Friendship, a F*ckboy Br...

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#44. Do I salvage a fading friendship? How do I tell my boyfriend he’s not my priority right now? Why am I sticking around for a f*ckboy? Do I break up with my long-distance BF (& how)? These are all questions we get to the bottom of in this episode of ASK P, a monthly advice column with Payton.    FOLLOW NOTE TO SELF: https://instagram.com/ntsbyps & ... Show More
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