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Sep 2024
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Why Am I Not Good Enough For Him?

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About this episode

On this episode of Pretty Basic, Alisha and Remi dive into the world of situationships, exploring the low-level commitment and fantasy that often surrounds them. They discuss why we're more protective of others than ourselves, the importance of staying true to who we are, and how chasing the wrong person can lead to "dumb b*tchitis." Plus, Alisha steps into her lawyer mode, breaking down attachment styles and relationship red flags, with a special call from Cal for some wholesome man advice!


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