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Apr 2019
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【弟子规】05亲所好,力为具。亲所恶,谨为去

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【入则孝出则悌】
亲所好,力为具。
亲所恶,谨为去 。
身有伤,贻亲忧 。
德有伤,贻亲羞 。


【拼音版】
qīn suǒ hào,lì wèi jù
亲所好,力为具。
qīn suǒ wù,jǐn wèi qù
亲所恶,谨为去
shēn yǒu shāng,yí qīn yōu
身有伤,贻亲忧
dé yǒu shāng,yí qīn xiū
德有伤,贻亲羞


【参考译文】

父母所喜欢的东西,要竭力替他们准备好;
父母所讨厌的东西,要尽心尽力地处理掉。
如果身体受到损伤,会让父母为我们担忧;
如果品德上有污点,会连累父母感到丢脸。



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