In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You," John and Vanessa talk about having hard conversations and what's running underneath relationship conflicts.
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Re-Release: Most Asked Questions About Love
In this re-release, I answer five of the most common questions I get about love, relationships, and emotional well-being. I also share five daily reminders to help you reconnect with yourself and support your healing. In this episode, I answer: Why do I keep attracting emotionall ... Show More
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Oct 28
Re-Release: Calming Your Nervous System
Ever feel like your mind is telling you you're fine, but your body is saying something completely different? You're overwhelmed, constantly on edge, or struggling to slow down. And no matter how many times you tell yourself to relax, you just can't seem to switch off. In today's ... Show More
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Oct 26
Why did it take me 50 years to return home?
What does it feel like to return to the country where you were born after 50 years? I'm back in South Korea for the first time since leaving as a child, and the experience has brought up memories, emotions, and parts of my identity I haven't connected with in decades. From explor ... Show More
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Oct 2022
Relationship Status: It’s Not Me, It's You w/ John Kim and Vanessa Bennett
Kayla is joined by relationship therapists and real-life couple, John Kim (LMFT), and Vanessa Bennett (LMFT), to discuss their book, “It's Not Me, It's You,” where they analyze their own relationship as a way to offer advice and guidance to others’ relationships. And yes, fightin ... Show More
47m 32s
Jul 2023
Is it a boundary or is it conrtol?
In this episode, Nadia Addesi and Micheline Maalouf get into the topic of therapy speak and how it can be hurting us. We chat about: Jonah Hill & his text messages The difference between control and boundaries Values and non-negotiables in relationships Gaslighting, Narcissism, A ... Show More
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Sep 2022
161 Couples Therapist Advice on Break Ups, Love Languages, and Conflict | Vanessa Bennett & John Kim 161
In this episode, I spoke with Vanessa Bennett and John Kim about the dynamics of relationships. Together we discussed their book that they co-wrote, called "It's Not Me, It's You," different relationship attachment styles, common relationship problems, vulnerability and discernme ... Show More
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