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Apr 2022
1h 8m

#9: His Problems are NOT Your Problems -...

ADRIENNE EVERHEART
About this episode

Do you take on the problems and excuses of a man and limit your relationship and self-growth?

This episode includes live Q&A (watch the video replay here!), where women just like you share how a man's excuses or problems can keep your own life from developing. 

I share how you can manage caring for a man versus becoming dragged down in his issues. Liberate yourself from the things that slow him down and create your own rich, juicy life!

This pulls the man closer to you. You become confidently seated atop your pedestal instead of letting his issues bog you down. 

You will also be introduced to the Drama Triangle, as well as the 3 Big Questions you must ask yourself for immediate clarity on taking control of your life and relationship. 

XOXO, Adrienne Everheart

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