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Mar 2022
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046: Q+A on Triggers, Relationships, & W...

KELLEY BODE
About this episode

Excited to bring you a new solo episode this week where I am finally sitting down to answer allllll of your questions. On a daily basis I get questions from you guys, in my Instagram, clients in my programs or masterclasses or even inside my Facebook community. So, I figured it was about time I did an episode to go through some of them. I asked you over on my Instagram what you really wanted to know, and I’m in this episode, I’m going through each one. I’m talking from my own perspective in my relationship(s), as a coach, for my clients, in my studies and the work I’ve done over the years to really understand myself, intimacy and relationships more and I’m offering what I hope will be helpful insights into some of your most common relationship challenges. Things like porn, sharing the things that trigger you in a way that stops those things impacting your connection, non-negotiables and more. I hope you love it! I promise I’ll do this again soon, so if you’re not already, come find me on Instagram and let me know your most burning relationship questions.

WHAT ELSE WE’RE TALKING ABOUT:

 

✹ Watching porn when you’re in a committed relationship: what happens when your partner watches porn and it’s triggering for you.

✹ Why relationships are the biggest catalysts for growth and change that a person can experience (if you let it).

✹ Non-negotiables, how to and when to decide if it’s a relationship that you want to be in.

✹ Some of the great things that fill mine and Matt’s relationship that really make doing “The Work” worthwhile.

✹ Embodying and healing shame around our sex life: how our sex can be sweet and loving and eye-gazing, and then at the same time it can be kinky and rough and primal.

✹ When Matt decided he wanted to be in a relationship how he was all in and has never wavered.

✹ How it’s normal to be scared to share something important to you in your relationship

✹ Matt and I’s conversations lately about marriage, getting engaged, what a ring even really means to me, and all of the triggers these conversations have the potential to bring up

✹ The stories we tell ourselves about not being loveable, good enough, wanted etc.

✹ What Matt and I do in our relationship to get reconnected when we’re maybe distracted or spending a lot of time apart, working or generally just not being intimate

✹ How to connect with and share your desires to get more of your needs met, more often

✹ How to trust the divine masculine and The Universe / Source as it relates to dating and masculine energy

Manifesting Love info: https://www.kelleymbode.com/manifesting-love-masterclass

 

Connect with me:

 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kelleymbode

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kelley.bode.90 

Twitter: https://twitter.com/kelleybode

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