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Mar 2022
10m 14s

Self Love Is The Priority, A Man Is A Bo...

SHENEKA ADAMS
About this episode
When you start working on yourself, the things around you begin to shift too. Old habits, places, and people can start making you uncomfortable. Your spirit won’t be at peace when you are somewhere you no longer belong. And that’s okay, because the discomfort is simply calling you to the next chapter. 
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