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Mar 2022

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#278: 4 Common Reasons Positive Discipli...

Erin Royer, MA Clinical Psychology, Child Development Specialist

About this episode

Have you ever struggled through a discipline exchange? Discipline just fell flat because your child wasn't having it? Or you had a tool that worked like a charm and then just stopped working all of the sudden?! Why do these strategies other people swear by not work for you at all or work for a while and then stop? Erin addresses 4 common reasons discipline strategeis can fail so you can get your positive discipline game in the flow.

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