Mar 27

What Happens to Your Body During Anal (Surgeon Explains)

If you've ever avoided anal because it hurt, felt intimidating, or just had too many unanswered questions — you haven't had the right conversation yet. Whether you're completely new to backdoor play or you've been doing it for years without the proper foundation, most people are ... Show More

50m 47s

Mar 24

The Night a 20 Year Marriage Changed Forever

If you've ever felt like everyone else is having the sex life you're supposed to have — and you're just white-knuckling your way through it, faking it, or coming up empty — you're not broken. You're just not talking about it yet. Whether it's a desire you've been too scared to vo ... Show More

28m 9s

Mar 20

Why This Athlete Has the Best Sex of Her Life

If you've built a life that looks great from the outside but still feels like something's missing on the inside, the problem might not be your relationship — it might be how much of yourself you're actually bringing to it. Whether it's a body image spiral that shuts you down in t ... Show More

38m 7s

Apr 2021

Episode 494: Will No Contact Work On A FWB?

Will no contact work on someone you were fwb with or it only works if you were exclusive? Dating/relationship expert Lucia responds to an email from a coaching client who was in a fwb relationship and wonders if he can get her back with no contact. Sign up for coach ... Show More

15m 50s

Sep 2022

Can a "friends with benefits" relationship last?

This week, we're sharing an episode of another podcast called Curious State that looks into how friends-with-benefits relationships work. Have you ever had a so-called "friends with benefits" relationship? How did that go for you? Did you get what you expected from the relationsh ... Show More

20m 46s

Feb 2022

Episode 75: Making Friends With Benefits Work

More than 60% of American adults say they’ve had sex with a friend in the past year, a number that <a href="https://www.sexandpsychology.com/blog/2019/8/7/changes-in-americans-sexual-behavior-since-the-1990s/">has increased considerably</a> over the last two decades. Des ... Show More

54m 55s

Jun 2024

No Such Thing As Friends With Benefits

Hello, gorgeous listeners! 💖 Today, we're uncovering the secrets of friends with benefits relationships. From my own escapades to your juicy queries, we're tackling how to keep things hot without the heartache. Discover why radical honesty is a game-changer and why these flings ... Show More

32m 22s

Oct 2021

Friends with Benefits

A lot of us think that it's a bad idea to get physical with friends. We worry it'll get messy, maybe even ruin the friendship. But if physical intimacy between friends weren't so taboo, what could our friendships look like? In this episode, we explore the gray zone of sex and fri ... Show More

50m 14s

Sep 2022

38. the downside of having friends w/ benefits, participating in hook up culture & getting emotionally attached to men

Hi girlies! In today's episode I talk about the many downsides of having friends with benefits and participating in hook up culture as a woman, who it really benefits and what to do instead. I also chat about my experience with hook up culture and the lessons I've learned, how me ... Show More

21m 7s

Jun 2024

The Perfect Friend With Benefits

Hello, my curious darlings! 🚀 Get ready to flash back to year one sizzling episode. I sit down with B.E. to chat about his sexual rebirth and our intense adventures together. After a long sexual hiatus, B.E. discovered the joys of ass play and fisting, leading to some explosive ... Show More

1h 2m

Mar 2023

190. 5 Powerful Things I Learned in My Relationship

There are soooo many lessons that I've learned from being in a relationship for just over a year now. Firstly: if you think that once you get in a relationship, your triggers all pack up and head out the door…that's just not it. It is NOT IT, friend ... Show More

27m 39s

Nov 2023

225. A Conversation About When You're "Confused" About How "He Feels"

If you're hunched over your phone with your magnifying glass out, organizing a conference call with ten of your girlfriends at once, and desperately trying to untangle whether the person you're "talking to" wants to be in a relationship with you… He ... Show More

23m 6s

Jan 2023

181. It's 2023, It's Okay To Admit You Want A Relationship

PAUSE. Before you go any further, let me start by saying this: If you truly, deeply, in your heart of hearts, DO NOT WANT a relationship? That's great. That is absolutely great for you. <p ... Show More

27m 11s

Friends With Benefits: A Guide