More than 60% of American adults say they’ve had sex with a friend in the past year, a number that has increased considerably over the last two decades. Despite the fact that sex between friends is so common, it’s not something people often discuss. Can you go back to being just friends afterwards? And how do you approach sex with a friend withou ... Show More
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Episode 536: Was The Bridgerton Era As Sexy As We Think?
Shows like Bridgerton invite us to imagine the past as a time of elaborate courtship, forbidden desire, and passionate romance. But was the past really as sexy as we like to think it was? In today’s show, we’re going to separate fact from fantasy when it comes to sex in the Bridg ... Show More
32m 19s
Sep 11
Episode 535: Why Kink Works For Neurodiverse Brains
For many neurodivergent people, BDSM offers something conventional sexual practices often don’t, including clear communication, explicit expectations, structure, and the freedom to tailor experiences to their own needs. In this episode, we’re going to explore why people with ADHD ... Show More
34m 25s
Sep 8
Episode 534: The Complicated Relationship Between BDSM And Mental Health
BDSM can be a powerful source of pleasure, connection, and self-expression. But when mental health challenges enter the picture, they can also raise important questions about consent, communication, triggers, and emotional safety. So how can people navigate kink in ways that supp ... Show More
32m 8s
Aug 2023
Best Of: Are You Benefitting from Your Friends With Benefits?
([TW: SA] If you would like to skip this portion of the episode, please skip through: 21:25-22:00) Let’s talk friends with benefits. Somewhere between a relationship and a situationship, you’ve got FWBs... And in my view, they’re a completely valid relationship model. But let’s b ... Show More
40m 54s
Feb 2025
Friends With Major Benefits: My Juicy New Fling
Casual relationships? Yes, darling, they can be so much more than just a fling! 😉 In this episode, I’m sharing my latest adventures in the friends with benefits world—because let’s be real, the right mix of sexual chemistry and good communication makes all the difference. I’m ta ... Show More
36m 27s
Nov 2023
The Rules For Friends With Benefits
On today’s solo episode, I break down the rules for friends with benefits. We discuss the rules for friends with benefits, how to not get feelings, setting boundaries, and how you can thrive in this situation. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advert ... Show More
57m 11s
Jun 2024
No Such Thing As Friends With Benefits
Hello, gorgeous listeners! 💖 Today, we're uncovering the secrets of friends with benefits relationships. From my own escapades to your juicy queries, we're tackling how to keep things hot without the heartache. Discover why radical honesty is a game-changer and why these flings ... Show More
32m 22s
Mar 2022
Friends With Benefits: A Guide
Are you cut out for friends with benefits? If you crave regular sex, but don’t have capacity for a full-on relationship, an FWB arrangement could be just what the doctor ordered. But there’s a lot you should know before diving in! For some, FWB’s can be a super satisfying way to ... Show More
41m 14s
Jun 2020
255: Common Sexual Challenges And How To Overcome Them
Having sex is not as straight forward as it may seem, especially in long term relationships. Our personal sexual history, combined with another individual's personal sexual history, can make things quite complicated! Listen to today's show to learn how to navigate the sexual chal ... Show More
44m 50s