Casual relationships? Yes, darling, they can be so much more than just a fling! 😉 In this episode, I’m sharing my latest adventures in the friends with benefits world—because let’s be real, the right mix of sexual chemistry and good communication makes all the difference. I’m talking about the thrill of exploration, the importance of attraction, and why goo ... Show More
Oct 28
Two Pumps And A Conspiracy Theory
A little rough play, a few well-placed bites, and suddenly you've discovered a kink you didn't even know you had… ohhh, I love when that happens. 😏🍑 I'm digging into my Hump Day vault for the kind of stories that make me squirm in my seat, starting with a woman who walks away f ... Show More
29m 14s
Oct 27
You Gave Yourself An A In Bl*wjobs? REALLY?
Sixty-two percent of you gave yourselves an A in oral sex, and I'm sorry, but I have QUESTIONS. 😂🍆 I'm digging into your actual Spotify poll results, and between your very confident bedroom report cards and your willingness to be someone's sex-party wingman, I'm starting to thi ... Show More
37m 50s
Oct 26
Would You Let Me Watch You Get Naked?
I've got a confession: some of my sexual maybes are probably yeses… depending on who's asking. 😈💋 Sir InQ is back for Mansplain It to Me Monday, and he's taking a Yes, No, Maybe questionnaire that might expose a few naughty little surprises in all of us. We're getting into spon ... Show More
30m 52s
Aug 2023
Best Of: Are You Benefitting from Your Friends With Benefits?
([TW: SA] If you would like to skip this portion of the episode, please skip through: 21:25-22:00) Let’s talk friends with benefits. Somewhere between a relationship and a situationship, you’ve got FWBs... And in my view, they’re a completely valid relationship model. But let’s b ... Show More
40m 54s
Mar 2022
Friends With Benefits: A Guide
Are you cut out for friends with benefits? If you crave regular sex, but don’t have capacity for a full-on relationship, an FWB arrangement could be just what the doctor ordered. But there’s a lot you should know before diving in! For some, FWB’s can be a super satisfying way to ... Show More
41m 14s
Jul 2021
Best Of: Sex Drives & Relationship Vibes
On today’s Best of episode, I’m explaining how to spot red flags when you’re dating someone new, healthy ways to address conflict, and actionable tips to amp up a low sex drive. I also take your calls about getting past jealousy in an open relationship, what to do when you want m ... Show More
51m 46s
Sep 2024
How To Ask For What You Want
So your partner is great… but you want them to bring the heat, and don’t know how to ask for it. Now what? On today’s episode, I answer calls about how to ask for exactly what you want, or conversely, don’t want. I also give advice about how to achieve orgasm without relying too ... Show More
50m 26s
May 2024
Best Of: Ready to Get Naughty?
Let's face it: sex isn't just a switch you can flip on and off. It's more like a whole playlist of tension, arousal, body exploration, playful antics, and steamy teamwork — there’s a lot more than just the main event. So, what do you do when you're ready to get it on, but your bo ... Show More
34m 36s
Jun 2024
Get What You Want (In Bed)
Ever dated a mind reader who just gets you? …Chances are, probably not. Unfortunately for us, deep connections need deep communication skills. I mean, how can your partner know your needs if you don’t tell them? I know it’s not easy, though, and that’s why today’s throwback is al ... Show More
44m 43s
May 2024
Best Of: Conscious, Casual Sex
Let’s face it: casual sex often gets a bad rap. It’s thought of as just another swipe, a fleeting moment, a reflection of society’s current hookup culture, or something disposable. But hold up! It doesn't have to be that way. When you bring a little intention and mindfulness into ... Show More
37m 13s