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Sep 2022
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38. the downside of having friends w/ be...

Elicia Goguen
About this episode
Hi girlies! In today's episode I talk about the many downsides of having friends with benefits and participating in hook up culture as a woman, who it really benefits and what to do instead. I also chat about my experience with hook up culture and the lessons I've learned, how men and women form different emotional attachments, why you bend your boundaries for him, lies that most woman tell themselves about having a FWB & MORE! 

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