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Mar 2022
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THIS Mindset Keeps You Single (+ Matt's ...

MATTHEW HUSSEY
About this episode

Can you be "too picky" in love? What is the difference between having standards and just being annoyingly judgmental? Matt and Stephen sit down to talk about:

  • When to be picky vs. when to be open-minded when falling in love
  • How true commitment changes your view of relationships
  • The things that really matter when choosing a partner
  • The cognitive bias that keeps you with the wrong person

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