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Dec 2021
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136. Chasing + Pre-mature Commitment Wit...

Beatrice Kamau
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In this episode of the Self Love Fix podcast, I'm talking about chasing and premature commitment and how neither of those are something you need in your love life. Dating should be fun, but the urge to chase people that aren't meant for you and the tendency towards premature commitment can take all of that joy out of it. I want you to not only enjoy the dat ... Show More
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