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Mar 2021
26m 11s

Better sex and boosting body image in th...

DANAE MERCER
About this episode

Dr. Alexandra Solomon is one of the most trusted voices in the world of relationships, and today she comes on our show to chat to us about all things sex. 

Professor and author of Taking Sexy Back, Dr. Solomon chats through tuning into your own sex drive, body image in the bedroom, and if porn is a problem. 

Topics discussed: 

  • How to tune in to your own sex drive 
  • How to talk to your partner about sex
  • Keeping the flame alive during Covid
  • How to take your sexy 'back'
  • My partner is into more edgy things. How do I navigate that? 
  • What about porn? 
  • How do I find my voice in the bedroom?
  • What is an orgasm gap? 
  • I worry about my body. Does my partner notice in the bedroom? 
  • Simple steps to take your sexy back


For more information on Dr. Alexandra Solomon, visit: 
http://www.dralexandrasolomon.com/
instagram.com/dr.alexandra.solomon 

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