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Falling out of love is the hardest part in any relationship. When love is gone, we lose interest and compassion, and we eventually disconnect from our partner. When the connection starts to wane, we become less i ... Show More
Yesterday
5 Signs Someone Is Draining Your Energy (And What to Do About It)
Jay explores how draining relationships can quietly take a toll on our bodies, minds, and emotional well-being, leaving us depleted before a conversation even begins and carrying its weight long after it ends. He breaks down five signs of chronic relational stress, from managing ... Show More
34m 23s
Oct 7
Sabrina Zohar: How to Stop Chasing People Who Don’t Want You
Jay sits down with dating and relationship coach Sabrina Zohar to unpack why we chase the familiar over the safe, how childhood attachment shapes adult dating patterns, and the real difference between boundaries and walls. Together they dig into anxious-avoidant dynamics, chemist ... Show More
1h 26m
Aug 2024
How to Rebuild the Connection in Your Relationship
Do you feel like the spark in your relationship is fading, leaving you disconnected and longing for the closeness you once had? Brendon Burchard, the world’s top high performance coach, is here to help you rebuild the connection in your relationship and reignite the bond with you ... Show More
22m 13s
Dec 2018
179: Reconnecting Sexual Intimacy In Your Relationship
It's easy to have high sexual energy very early in a relationship. However, six months to one year into a relationship, the hormones can start to die down — leaving you with a new, often less sexy relationship. Listen to today's show to learn how to keep intimacy alive in your re ... Show More
50m 48s
May 2025
For When You Feel Disillusioned In Your Relationship
This episode dives into the feeling of disillusionment in long-term relationships—when the connection, ease, or intimacy from the early days starts to fade and partners question what changed. The hosts unpack how this shift is often tied to attachment dynamics, life stressors, an ... Show More
52m 46s
Aug 2023
399: "Help! I'm Not Attracted to My Spouse Anymore."``
Oof listeners, this is some hard content that we are discussing today! Loss of attraction is often shared as the reason for the ending of a relationship. Maybe partners never felt deeply attracted to one another, or attraction waned over the years. Regardless of the reason, this ... Show More
37m 30s
Jun 2022
Feeling Lonely In a Relationship? How to Reconnect. | E304
We all dream of having a close, connected relationship that fulfills us on every level. If you're feeling lonely in a relationship, it hurts. It can be hard to know how to reconnect, especially if the distance has been growing for a while — or if negativity has crept in.
Deep co ... Show More
46m 22s