In this episode, I talk about being obsessed with partners and being obsessed with those who have wronged you and what that behaviour might actually reveal about your relationship with yourself.
Mar 2025
How Is Trauma Dumping Affecting My Relationships?
This week, JVN sits down with existential psychotherapist and author Dr. Sara Kuburic, widely recognized as the @Millennial.Therapist in Instagram, to delve into the phenomenon of "trauma dumping." We’re exploring the nuances between sharing personal experiences and overloading o ... Show More
41m 20s
Sep 2025
How To Stay In Control! Even When Conversations Turn Emotional
When someone gets emotional in conversation, it can be tough to know how to respond. In this episode, I share how to keep your cool without shutting them down or losing yourself in the moment. You’ll learn how to recognize your own physical reactions, ground yourself with simple ... Show More
22m 18s
Nov 12
Interviewing Sonja Farmer
Sonja @the_curiousquill25 is a young adult and mental health advocate who openly shares her experiences living with symptoms of trichotillomania, even without a formal diagnosis. Through her journey, she has learned the power of self-awareness, compassion, and resilience, and now ... Show More
13m 35s
Aug 2025
Limerence: The Psychology of Romantic Obsession with Brandy Wyant
Forrest and therapist Brandy Wyant discuss limerence, an intense and often one-sided state of romantic obsession. They explore how limerence differs from both love and ordinary crushes, why uncertainty fuels it, and how it can take over a person’s inner world. Brandy shares both ... Show More
1h 4m
Sep 2025
Therapists Answer Erotic Questions After Hours
<p>Problemistas, we've missed you. We're working on our brand this week, establishing our "after hours" vibe. Which prompted a soundboard re-think. It'll make sense when you listen. Just jump in and click play. </p><p>16:00 - Question 1 - Masterbating, oh what fun.</p><p>23:47 - ... Show More
1h 1m
Aug 2025
Fawning: Answering Your Questions With Dr. Ingrid Clayton
In this conversation, host Monique Koven has invited Dr Ingrid Clayton back to answer your questions. They explore the concept of fawning as a relational trauma response, discussing its implications on identity, relationships, and personal growth. They delve into the complexities ... Show More
50m 39s
<p>In this episode of the Unf*ck Your Relationships Podcast, I am sharing Day One of my Connected AF Week. I'm going to be speaking to exactly what it means to <em>truly</em> be a connected woman.</p> <p>Here are a few points I cover: </p> <ul> <li style="font-weight: 400;" aria- ... Show More