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Jan 2022
52m 22s

Minimizing Pain, Maximizing Joy

Hidden Brain, Shankar Vedantam
About this episode
Life is often filled with hardships and tragedies. For thousands of years, philosophers have come up with strategies to help us cope with such hardship. This week, we revisit a 2020 conversation with philosopher William Irvine about ancient ideas — backed by modern psychology — that can help us manage disappointment and misfortune. 
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