On this episode, I go over the final three human needs which are: the need for connection, the need for growth, and the need for contribution. The need for connection can manifest in a negative manner such as reassurance seeking. I talk about how we can manifest healthy positive connections. Then, I go over the need for growth and why we need to burn off/uni ... Show More
Apr 2026
350 | How Anxiety Circuits Hijack Your Brain | And What To Do
On today's episode, I break down the brain circuits behind anxiety—the amygdala, hippocampus, prefrontal cortex, and the HPA axis—and show how they create panic, overgeneralization, and sleeplessness. I then explain, in plain terms, why anxiety feels overwhelming and how chronic ... Show More
26m 33s
Apr 2026
349 | Healing Trauma and Building A Better Life | Dana Hargus
On todays episode, I speak with Dana Hargus founder of Restore of Ada and we discuss trauma-informed approaches to calm the nervous system, biofeedback strategies, and rebuilding resilience after chronic stress. Dana explains how trauma can affect anyone and why treating the body ... Show More
49m 34s
Apr 2026
348 | Why You Can’t Stop Checking Your Body (Health Anxiety Explained)
Today, I break down why people with health anxiety obsessively check their bodies, how that checking fuels a loop of fear and hyper-awareness, and how intolerance of uncertainty and misinterpreting normal sensations keep the cycle going. I outline clear, practical steps to break ... Show More
35m 1s
Sep 2024
Ep 80. Are You Needy? Or Do You Just Have Needs?
<p>Oftentimes we are labelled needy within relationships and friendships for expressing our wants, filling us with a sense of guilt and shame. But what’s the difference between having needs and being needy?</p><p>Join Big Bros, Jeremy and Ilan, as they explore the careful nuance ... Show More
30m 3s
Feb 2024
4 Elements of SUCCESS You May Be Missing
In this enlightening episode, Brendon unravels the profound truths behind the four fundamental desires that drive every human being. Whether it's the pursuit of happiness, fulfillment, purpose, or connection, this episode provides actionable tools to help you understand and align ... Show More
24m 3s
Sep 2021
The 3 Elements of Wellness
In life, we all want to thrive and feel full of life. In this episode, discover the 3 Elements of Wellness, to improve the quality of your mental health and well-being. “What we all really want, after we have everything we thought we needed, is to feel alive.” If you'd like a fra ... Show More
12m 15s
Feb 2022
Episode 23: How To Feel Authentically Connected To People You Love
We are all in desperate need of connection. Recent events have had us more lonely, isolated, and disillusioned than ever. In this episode, we talk about building emotional intimacy and trust. If you’re ready for relationship upgrades, this ones for you.Join the SelfHealers Circle ... Show More
54m 4s
Oct 2023
Part 4: Anxious Attachment, Needs, and Manipulation...
The connection to our boundaries and needs is foundational to developing strong relationships that feel safe, nurturing, and supportive! But what if asking for your needs feel scary?What about the part of us that feels our needs are too much?This episode will help you decide wha ... Show More
20m 50s
<p>This Isn't Therapy...this is a two-part conversation about meeting your needs. What are<em> my</em> <em>needs</em>? What are <em>your needs</em>? How do we meet <em>each</em> <em>others needs</em>?! Oh boy!! In this fun, flirty, fab *throwback* episode, Jake and Simon chat thr ... Show More