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Jan 2019
20m 40s

What It Looks Like To Be Desperate & How...

TRIPP KRAMER
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Let's answer a voicemail from a listener. He's been in the friend-zone with a girl for about a year who is in an off and on relationship with a different guy who steals money from her and a gun from her family. Nick thinks he has a chance with her but she keeps shutting him down. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands 
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