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Feb 2016
23m 35s

Season 1 Episode 7: Don't Molly and Date

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick
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One of our hosts, Yue, spills about her dating experience that moved a little too fast. We get into conversations about how to handle when people ghost and are non-committal to plans. WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Have you ever had a time in your life where you genuinely didn’t wan ... Show More
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