374: Are You Seeking Validation, Permiss...

Hosted by Heather Chauvin | Insights inspired by Mel Robbins, Bréne Brown,

About this episode

"The woman who does not require validation from anyone is the most feared individual on the planet."

― Mohadesa Najumi

In this episode, you will learn:

How to believe in yourself
How to overcome the desire to receive validation from others
How to overcome unconscious expectations you have for others

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