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Sep 2020
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validate yourself: *your self-doubt is s...

SEPHY AND WING
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*insecurities have left the chat*

if you're searching for validation from random people and irrelevant institutions, this one's for you. this week, we're talking self-esteem and learning how we can validate ourselves, rather than expecting affirmation from money, follows, and popularity. from building confidence to rejecting 'imagined audiences', we're learning to release control and ~go with the flow~


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