Most of us spend a lot of time trying to ignore or limit our interaction with strong negative feelings. Things like fear, sadness, or anger can be scary or painful. But rushing to squash those feelings often leads us to fixate on them, which is the opposite of what we’re trying to do! It’s only by creating space for our feelings that we can move past them.
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Aug 19
You Don’t Have To Know Yet
Not knowing can feel almost intolerable, especially when something important is ending or changing. We reach for decisions, explanations, and certainty because they promise relief. But the rush to resolve everything can pull us away from the deeper question of what still feels al ... Show More
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Aug 17
We Want Connection, But We Keep Looking Away
We crave deeper conversations, meaningful relationships, and a greater sense of connection, yet we're surrounded by ways to leave the moment the instant it becomes quiet or uncomfortable. Maybe connection isn't something we need to find. Maybe it begins by giving our attention to ... Show More
6m 46s
Apr 2021
69 - Friday Fix: A Science-Backed Strategy for Finding Courage When You Need it Most
Whether you want to bring up a difficult subject with a loved one or you want to join a new class, fear can be a powerful obstacle. In fact, any uncomfortable emotion (like sadness, anxiety, or anger) can stand in between you and your goals if you let it. In today’s Friday Fix, I ... Show More
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