Perhaps the hardest word you can say to someone is NO. Saying YES to something, even if it’s half-heartedly meant, is easier because you aren’t obliged to justify it. The pressure is less, and so it’s easier to say so.
Whereas, if you say NO, there is this need to justify why you said that and why it isn’t possible for you to do anything at the moment. The ... Show More
Nov 21
6 Lessons I Wish I Knew in My 20’s & 30’s (This Will INSTANTLY Give You Direction!)
<p>What’s one thing you wish you learned earlier in life?</p> <p>What do you think would’ve changed for you if you learned it sooner?</p> <p>Today, Jay reflects on the lessons he wishes he’d learned in his twenties and thirties, wisdom shaped by mistakes, growth ... Show More
28m 45s
Feb 2023
Start Putting Yourself First: Tools to Say No Without Guilt or Drama
<p>In this episode, you are going to learn how to put yourself first.</p><p> </p><p>Which means you and I are having a conversation about people-pleasing.</p><p> </p><p>You know you do it. I do it, too. </p><p> </p><p>In fact, unless you're a narcissistic jerk (and you’re not if ... Show More
50m 55s
Mar 2021
Ep #138: Saying "No" to Yourself
<p>It can be hard to say no to yourself, especially when you really want something. Saying no may feel like a punishment or you may feel deprived. So when you know that saying no is what's best for you, how do you do it?<br /> <br /> In this episode, I'm talking about why you hav ... Show More
10m 24s
Apr 2024
Law of Attraction: Make Him YOURS
<p>Hey Besties! It’s 2024 and we’re done being nice girls. Violetta breaks down the SECRET to dating men - getting him to commit and learning the difference between a nice girl and a b*tch.</p><p>GIRLLL, all you ever did was take care of him, be nice to him, and put him on a pede ... Show More
29m 4s