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Jan 2024
29m 4s

Law of Attraction: Make Him YOURS

Violet Benson
About this episode

Hey Besties! It’s 2024 and we’re done being nice girls. Violetta breaks down the SECRET to dating men - getting him to commit and learning the difference between a nice girl and a b*tch.

GIRLLL, all you ever did was take care of him, be nice to him, and put him on a pedestal, and now you don’t understand why you got dumped…well, maybe that IS the problem – you’re too nice! In this episode, Violetta teaches you how to stop being too available and how to become the b*tch that men will go crazy for. So get ready to be the main event and how you can make men work so hard for that front seat!


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What to Listen For:

  • 00:00 Intro
  • 04:01 What is a nice girl?
  • 06:22 What is a b*tch?
  • 07:13 Why do men prefer b*tches?
  • 08:30 Become a prize
  • 10:02 Men always want what they can’t have
  • 13:53 Conditions to set when dating
  • 15:51 The Madonna-Wh*re Complex
  • 17:02 The difference between a nice girl, a woman who acts like a b*tch, and an actual b*tch
  • 21:40 Men are scared to lose control and their freedom
  • 23:21 Men want to feel that you chose to be with them


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