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Jul 2021
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05. Bullying, Emotional Neglect and Depr...

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We are back after Eid break with a conversation with Wissam - the first of a two part episode.

Wissam shares with us about growing up under the shadow of parents who has lived through trauma, and how that relationship has defined all his life relationships. He shares a journey of self doubt, emotional neglect and bullying, that drove him to the edge, so far that he struggled with suicidal thoughts.

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Timestamps:

[00:00] Intro

[04:30] Understanding our parents' trauma

[06:38] Over-activated amygdala

[08:48] Highly Superior Autobiographical Memory - My first memory

[11:55] Creation of family relationship dynamic

[19:18] Lack of self confidence and a look at cultural parenting styles

[21:40] The most formulating relationship in our lives

[30:32] The beginning of the end before the new beginning

[40:03] Struggling with depression

[45:25] The coincidental road to self healing - gratitude

[48:52] The healing of solutide

[54:50] Outro

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Music Credits "Over The Rooftops by Many Moons Ago" 

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