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Jul 2021

30m 9s

#244: I Don't Always Have The Right Answ...

Erin Royer, MA Clinical Psychology, Child Development Specialist

About this episode

In this episode Erin shares a dilemma she faced about how to handle a situation with her daughter, sharing with her listeners how sometimes parenting is convoluted and complicated just like all human relationships. She shares what she weighed in her mind as she did her best to make what she hoped would be the best choice for her daughter. She hopes this inside look into her relationship and her own mind will be both helpful and a relief to her listeners who sometimes worry they might be doing something "wrong".

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