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Jun 2021
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Little Happier: Novelist Amy Tan Didn’t ...

Gretchen Rubin / The Onward Project
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Novelist Amy Tan recounts that as she was writing her second book, she prayed to unnamed goddess that she “be able to write the best book I could, and that no matter what happened to it, I would have no regrets.” Wisely, she didn’t pray for a particular outcome or some metric of success; she prayed that she would feel no regrets.

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