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Jun 2021
1h 20m

Talking to your child about body safety ...

CINDY HOVINGTON, PH.D.
About this episode
Send us a text How do we teach body safety and consent to young children? How soon should we start? How to find the balance between teaching socially expected physical interactions while respecting the child's right to consent? How do we talk about private parts? What are the best terms to use? How to decide who is part of the safety network in which a child ... Show More
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