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Jun 2021
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Sometimes the best healing and growth ta...

PAUL COLAIANNI
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We can create our own dysfunction but be so jaded by those around us that we can't think clearly enough to stop toxic or hurtful behavior. There's a time when you have to get away from other people so that the fog can lift and you can think clearly. It is during those times when a lot of healing can take place. 
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