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May 15
27m 42s

Perfectionism Isn't High Standards. It's...

Aliza Pressman
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What if what we call high standards in our kids, and quietly admire in ourselves, is actually something much more painful underneath? This episode takes on a question that hits closer to home than most parents want to admit: have I been confusing high standards with something more punishing, in my kids and in myself? I'm joined by Professor Thomas Curran, s ... Show More
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