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Jul 27
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435. How to get past the fear of disappo...

Alexis Fernandez-Preiksa
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In today's episode, I talk about the common fear of disappointing others and how it affects our decision-making and overall happiness. I discuss the psychology behind this fear, including factors like high achievement, low self-esteem and sheltered upbringing. Learning how to differentiate between fear and weaponised disappointment and gain tools to take con ... Show More
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