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Jan 2021
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How some life choices bring on your own ...

PAUL COLAIANNI
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You can be around people that mistreat you, call you names, and are just downright nasty, and you could still be responsible for your own suffering because of how they show up in your life. It's vital you know the role you play and if you have a choice other than the one you're making in certain situations otherwise you could find yourself in a whirlwind of ... Show More
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