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Jun 2020
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Sometimes you have to take a stand to ma...

PAUL COLAIANNI
About this episode
When you're in a situation that needs to change, but you're too afraid to take a stand or just hope it changes on its own, you may be waiting forever. Unfortunately, waiting for changes can often involve exposing yourself to a toxic environment, causing long-term emotional damage. If you want change, you might have to take a big scary step to get it. 
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