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Jul 2014
57m 45s

Letting Go of Attachments Part 2

PAUL COLAIANNI
About this episode
We talk about letting go of the deeper, emotional attachments we have in our life in part 2 of a 2-part episode. From sentimental attachments, to people. The main focus in this episode is about the romantic relationships we can have trouble letting go of.  This is a deep and complex episode, and there are so many ways to approach this sensitive topic. But if ... Show More
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