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Jun 2016
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9: Be True to Yourself, But Don’t Get At...

Aileen Xu
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If you know me, you know that I love to play with different hair colors. Today I share my hair story and the drastic moment that made me realize that I am still me, no matter what I have or wear on the outside. Often times we depend on the things we “think” define us (i.e.: our ... Read more

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