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Nov 2020
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Self Criticism, Overthinking & Heartbrea...

JOEY KIDNEY
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Are you hard on yourself? Do you have trouble stopping your thoughts from overthinking? Are you going through a heartbreak? Today I sat down with one of my favourite people, Matthias James Barker and we chatted about everything and it was really insightful for myself. Let us know what you think!



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