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Dec 2020
37m 14s

Understanding Envy Part 1: How Envy Impa...

Morra Aarons-Mele
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Executive coach Nihar Chhaya explains how envy, FOMO, and the illusion of scarcity can contribute to anxiety and depression, and how leaders can cope. It’s part one of our two-part mini-series on envy at work. 
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