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Feb 2018
24m 5s

Melissa Dahl || A Theory of Awkwardness

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Melissa Dahl is a senior editor covering health and psychology for New York's The Cut. In 2014, she cofounded New York’s popular social science site, Science of Us. Her work has appeared in Elle, Parents, and TODAY.com. Her new book, Cringeworthy, is her first book.    In our conversation, Melissa shares with us:   - How awkwardness comes from self-conscious ... Show More
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